Niba usanzwe uzi ko ugomba kwirinda ubwoko runaka bwabantu, ntugatakaze umwanya kandi muganire mugihe uzi ko udakwiriye undi muntu.Ba inyangamugayo hamwe nabafatanyabikorwa kuri porogaramu yo gukundana, kandi nta kibi kiri mu kumenya icyo ukora nicyo udashaka.Niba hari amakosa yawe, nyamuneka uyandike muburyo butaziguye.Twizere ko ibi bizakuraho ibibazo bimwe bidakemuka.
Inzira yo gushakisha “imwe” irashobora kunaniza kandi itagira iherezo, ariko nubwo byatwara igihe kingana iki, ntukemere ko ushishikarira kubona umuntu bigutera kubabazwa no kutabona kwihanganira bikwiye.Niba umuntu agaragaje imyitwarire yuburozi, nyamuneka ntukemere ko umeze neza.Mubwire uko ubyumva, kandi umumenyeshe ko agomba guhindurwa plastike cyangwa gutwarwa.Niba witwaye muri ubu buryo, abagabo bazahita bumva ibintu udashaka kwihanganira mubucuti.
Abagore bizeye, bakomeye ntibemerera abagabo bafite uburozi kwinjira mubuzima, bazakwirakwiza izo mbaraga ahantu hose.Kugenda n'umutwe wawe muremure, iyi myifatire irerekana ko ufite igitekerezo cyo hejuru kuri wewe kandi ntuzafatwa.Iyi mitekerereze izakurura gusa abantu bakomeye mubuzima bwawe, kuko abantu bafite uburozi bazamenya ko badashoboye.
Witondere kumva ibitekerezo byawe, kuko akenshi birashobora kubona cyangwa kubona ikintu mbere yuko babishobora.Niba wumva bitagushimishije gato, cyangwa niba hari umuntu mwahuye akumva ko hari icyo ahishe cyangwa abeshya, noneho inzira nziza irashobora kuba ugukora muburyo bwawe mbere yuko ibintu bivuruguta.Abantu bafite uburozi bazakwereka umwirondoro wabo mukimara guhura nabo, niba rero wumva utameze neza, ibi birashoboka.ikizere.
Abantu bafite uburozi akenshi batera imbere mubice nkikinamico no kwitotomba kubintu byose.Iyi myitwarire irashobora gutesha umutwe kandi izagukurura gusa kurwego rwabo.Urarambiranye ibintu, nko gusebanya n'amarangamutima mabi, kandi ntushaka ko abantu bagukikije babikoresha nk'imyidagaduro.Inzira nziza yo guheza aba bantu ni ugukomeza kugumana urwego rwo hejuru rwawe wenyine.Irinde ikinamico, ntukwirakwize amazimwe cyangwa ibihuha, kandi ukore ibishoboka byose kugirango ugire imyumvire myiza.
Iyo ukurikiranye urukundo, biroroshye kwibagirwa kwiyitaho, ariko ukuri nuko tudashobora gukunda abandi keretse niba twikunda.Wibuke kumara umwanya ugaragaza urukundo rwawe no kwita kubikorwa byawe.Kora ikintu kigushimisha, kandi ukore cyane kugirango ukureho imbaraga zose mbi mubuzima bwawe.Ibi bizagufasha kugira ibitekerezo bisobanutse no gutekereza neza mugihe uhisemo uwo mukundana cyangwa gutambutsa abandi.
Igihe cyose uhuye nabantu bashya, menya neza kwibuka urutonde rwawe ugomba-kugira kandi wangiza.Reba ibintu, ibiranga, n'imyitwarire igufitiye akamaro cyane muri mugenzi wawe.Ntutinye gukurikiza ayo mahame, no guta abasa nkabatagira ingano.Hariho itandukaniro hagati yo guha umuntu amahirwe no gutuza umuntu.Uri mwiza cyane kuburyo udakemuka.
Urashobora kwisanga mubucuti numuntu umwe cyangwa benshi exe bafite byinshi bahuriraho.Muri iki gihe, kandagira byoroshye kandi ntukemere ko uba igitambo cyibintu byose bitagenze neza mumibanire yashize.Aba basore ni exe bakinisha kubwimpamvu, gusa rero menya neza ko udakwegerwa nundi musore ufite ubumara, gusa kuko wumva umenyereye cyangwa ukeka ko ushobora kongera guhangana nabyo.Ukwiriye kurenza ibi.
Abantu mubuzima bwacu badukunda cyane babona ibintu tutazi mubucuti.Turashobora kwirengagiza ibimenyetso byo kuburira, cyangwa guhumura amaso kubyishimo byacu mumibanire mishya itubuza kubona ibibazo bihari.Niba inshuti zawe n'umuryango wawe bagaragaje impungenge zabo kumuntu bahuye, bamenyeshe ko babonye ikibazo, ntukemure.Bashaka icyakubera cyiza, barashaka kukurinda ibibi.
Abagabo bafite uburozi bakunze kugaragara muburyo bwabantu bafite ibibazo byinshi muri bo.Birumvikana ko, iyo ukunda umuntu, uzakomeza kumukunda nubwo bahura nibibazo byinshi mubuzima bwabo, ariko ntabwo ari akazi kawe gukiza umuntu ukeneye kwikemurira ibibazo.Ntushobora kwibanda kubuzima bwawe mugukosora ibintu byabandi, kandi ntushobora kwibanda kuri wewe wenyine.Abantu bafite uburozi nabo bazagutera kumva wicira urubanza kubera ibibazo byabo, kandi batume bumva icyaha, ariko mugihe umubano ubabaje ubuzima bwawe, ugomba kugira imbaraga zo kugenda.Baziga kuba beza, ariko ugomba kwemeza ko ibyo ukeneye nabyo byujujwe.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Werurwe-29-2021